One thing is for sure. I will bet you that you’ve never been given this advice/piece of information before. And it’s FREE! I’m not even charging for this stuff.

Ladies have you ever had to fight for your husband? Now I’m not talking about fighting another woman because she was after him but have you ever been in a situation where you had to handle the woman or old person or someone close to him that he respected…have you ever had to check them for disrespecting your man because his pride wouldn’t let him?

Well I have one example that set the stage for us. You can ask mine because he loves telling this story. I’m from Jackson, MS and the casinos are near us in Vicksburg. One weekend while visiting my hometown I took my husband to the “boat.” It was something we’d never done so we were enjoying ourselves. I hadn’t played Blackjacks in a while and not sure if he’d ever really played. He knew the concept but neither of us were expects by far. So he splits a pair of tens (and I dare you to say something now!). After doing this, it caused a couple to lose at the table, one being this older lady (in her late 50s or so). She had been drinking obviously and started talking shit about my husband’s apparently bad move.

I let her get it out but after a minute or so, her time was up. I told her “ok now that you got that out, you can move on. It’s not like you lost some money worth talking about.” She said it didn’t matter because it was her money and he f$$$ed up her hand. She kept talking about the $5 she’d just lost so I went ahead and just squashed the conversation by telling her “you talking shit over $5, really. You sat down knowing you could lose. If you that mad then B$$$$ JUMP.” The end.

So every since that night, let me tell you what that did for him. You see that heifer put him in a bad spot. He knew he’d made a bad move. Had a guy said something to him, he could’ve said a few choice words and they would’ve went on to playing. But no, she was making a scene and he wouldn’t have dared said anything to her out of respect. But I could have her! And I was gone get dat ass had she stood up. (Disclaimer: yes I quote scriptures throughout this site but there won’t be none on this here post. Sometimes choice words express things better. This is one of those times. Not too many more after this paragraph. Please keep reading).

You know how us women want to be safe at all times. We want our men to stand up for us. Now for most mature ladies, we don’t want them to actually fight but we want to know that they will fight for us when necessary. Well guess what ladies, he wants to feel that same way but on another level. He wants to know that you got his back and will handle his lite weight. Most real men won’t be caught laying hands on a woman or cursing her out. He’d walk off before doing that. But here is the thing, his pride is hurt. He wants to go off but he won’t. So here is your chance to have his back. He will hold such a high level of respect for you knowing that you will fight. No, he doesn’t want to see you fight but it makes his chest rise at the thought that he knows you will. Hell he even thinks it’s sexy ladies!!!!

Next time he finds himself in this predicament, he will actually call you. He will be telling you the story while that heifer is in the background going off! So what will you say? And if you say “that’s not nice,” Imma find you and bust you in yo face! If mines calls me, imma say “put that b$$$$ on the phone!” Hahaahhaa whewwww! Say that and I bet you will hear his smile come across his face! You got him then girl. All the items on the honey-do-list scratched OFF! LMAO.

Think I’m playing. Ask any guy around your job what he thinks when his girl does this. You ain’t gotta take my word for it. Ask one, not yours honey, but another guy and see what he says. He may tell you that secret and he may not so you still may have to just try it. Mine knows I’ll whop ass over him. He even walks around with a chip on his shoulder cus he know I’ll handle all the lite weight with a snap of his finger. Come around corners “what she say?” Paaahahahahaaa ok ok let me stop. I’m having too much fun here.

Soooo Part I calls for us to stop being mommy and stop nagging him…Part II says we need to be Laila Ali and fight for him when he won’t or can’t. Ummmm I wonder if for Part III if it’s too soon to take it behind closed doors. I shall see. I won’t spoil it for you. Sex is on the agenda but recall I just go with the flow at that moment. So regardless, stay tuned for more within this marriage series.

Disclaimer: I am NOT saying you should fight. He just needs to know that his wife is crazy when it comes to him. Lol real talk.

Thank you for your attention. Remember you are your own competition.

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